Why I think there is a huge gap between what one gender want and what the other gender think they want and why transactional sex is illegal
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I think there is a huge gap between what men want and what women think men want. The same way for what women want and men think women want. For example, men like pretty women so they think women like handsome men. While it’s true, it’s probably not as true as the normal men to women direction. Women like rich men and they think men like rich women and so pursue careers. There are ways to make sure there is no misunderstanding. Make things transactional. When things are transactional BOTH says what they want and agree or disagree based on what the deal is. Basically make things transactional put light and make many issue obvious EARLY. People will say what they want in transactions most of the time. And that is the very reason why it’s illegal. Many do not want the truth to come up to clearly. Having child that is biologically yours is VERY important for men. So why do men get married? When they are married they got to be responsible for the child even though the child is not his. And this is what limitation of rationality is. If sex and reproduction is explicitly transactional, issues like this will come up. Any women that say will you pay for children that’s not yours will just be left. Problems solved. Many similar deals and pretty much we know what we want from each other. But sex is not transactional. Criminalization of transactional sex means things like this are not openly discussed. In any case, you know the truth. I know as a man, you don’t want to support someone else’s children. I know most men want. That is precisely why such terms are hidden deep within the laws rather than explicitly agreed. If it’s explicitly stated most men will disagree. So don’t get married. Oh ya, women also like getting money. Again, if sex is transactional, this will be obvious and we will have stats for that. This is why it’s shoved under rug again. submitted by /u/Hairy_Arugula509 |
